Clairest Of Them.....All (thoughts of a lighthouse )

Being a MALE is a matter of birth, being a MAN is a matter ofchoice. "The man is the leader, while a woman is a responder. Women look for men who are LEADER. The MAN is the initiator. Man wants to pursue. Be the right man & you will marry the right kind of woman. As MAN, you should posses Leadership qualities. 8 LEADERSHIP QUALITIES OF MAN 1. A leader who is CHRIST - CENTERED A man of courage, loves the Lord & a man of faith. Philippians 1:21 " For me to live is Christ and to die is gain. "Self-centered vs Christ Centered Insecure vs SecureProud Humble Wants to impress others vs Does not need to impress others Wants to be served vs Wants to serve Love things vs Loves GOD A man's view of God will affect his decisions in life. 2. A leader with INTEGRITY integrity is all about character when character is lost, all is lost. Reputation is what people see in us. Character is what GOD sees in us. Test of integrity can be seen in WORDS, FINANCE, and PRIVATE LIFE 3.

Ezekiel 16: 6-14 " 'Then I passed by and saw you kicking about in your blood, and as you lay there in your blood I said to you, "Live!" --> God actually called me out of darkness, from my old dirty life of sin. The sin that so easily entangles when I used to do what I want actually laid me on my own blood. I was dead, lost, unhappy, unsatisfied, wanting. I didn't kill anyone nor committed something too grave but deep inside it's the same; I was living in sin because I was living for myself and not for God. --> As He called me to live! By his word, I was made alive, new; I had a new purpose for living. I know that I am called to live for God, to please him and to delight in him. --> I can say that I was made new, as if I was starting from scratch, like newborn baby, like I'm born again --> In the same way, you husband or whoever is going to pursue you must also add up to you and give you life. He must be someone that will call you out of darkne